Susie Tosh — Speaker · Writer · Identity Mentor
Susie teaches identity as mechanism — why self-aware women keep repeating the same patterns even when they know better, and what actually changes behaviour for good. Not manifestation. Not mindset. Mechanism.
About
Susie Tosh is a writer, speaker, and identity mentor. Her work sits at the intersection of self-concept, neuroscience, and behaviour — built on one idea: identity drives behaviour, behaviour creates evidence, and evidence shapes reality.
She speaks to the woman who has done the courses, read the books, and holds clear standards — but can't explain why she isn't reaching them. Susie's answer is direct: she isn't lazy, broken, or behind. She's living from an identity that keeps producing the same reality.
Susie is the creator of The Standard Shift and the author of The Identity Code (2026). She's based in New Zealand and brings a sharp, feminine, no-fluff voice to every room she's in.
Signature Topics
Why insight doesn't change behaviour. She keeps stopping the things she swore would change her life — and she can't explain why, because nobody has shown her what's running underneath it all: an identity her nervous system keeps returning to. The conversation that reframes "self-sabotage" for good.
Fits: personal development · women's podcasts · self-concept
The grounded, evidence-based case for why lasting change is an identity problem — not a discipline problem, a vibration problem, or a healing problem. How behaviour always returns to the identity the mind recognises, and how to interrupt that loop.
Fits: neuroscience-curious shows · behaviour change · high performers
Why what a woman tolerates — in work, money, relationships — is never random. Standards are identity made visible. This talk shows the audience how to raise a standard at the identity level so it holds without willpower.
Fits: female entrepreneurship · relationships · career shows
Formats
Interview or co-hosted conversation. Comes prepared, delivers quotable, clip-ready ideas, and promotes the episode to her audience.
20–60 minute talks for women's events, retreats, and conferences. Direct, visceral, and practical — the audience leaves with a decision, not just notes.
A sharp, contrarian voice on identity, standards, and behaviour change. Comfortable challenging the manifestation-heavy takes in the room.
Live, interactive identity work for teams, memberships, and communities — built around her frameworks, tailored to your audience.
Booking
Tell her about your show or event, your audience, and what you want them to walk away with. She responds to every genuine invitation.
hello@elevatewithsusie.com